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Dating, Relationships and Love Making Them Last Forever

Three Secret Ways Your Subconscious Mind Sabotages Your Love Life Daily. What is the Meaning of love? Finding Mr. Right.
Instructor:
Scott Paton
5,010 students enrolled
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Understand their family dynamics and how those dynamics impact their relationships
Have a better understanding of their role in the success or failure of their relationships
Feel more empowered to make better choices in the people they choose as their mate
Feel more confident in a relationship by having more influence
Find more understanding for who they are and why they choose their partners

“Dating, Relationships and Love – Making Them Last Forever” is an invitation to a new experience of yourself, your life, your partner, your friends, family and the world. We discover the spiritual dilemma that underlies the psychological drama of our lives. The course is creative, empowering, process-oriented, where we start relinquishing a thought system based on fear, for one based on love.

Begin an unforgettable journey that will change the way you look at love forever.

We delve into the three crucial ways we sabotage our relationships. We help you begin to see the effect that the unwritten rules of your family, when unconscious undermine the feelings you and your partner have for one another.

Do you find yourself repeating your mothers words? Or your fathers? Discover how your family dynamics-if left festering under the surface, destroy your love and happiness.

Fortunately, there is another way.

It comes from addressing issues head on and bringing into conscious awareness, the deepest, juiciest parts of ourselves. Not to remove them or destroy them, but to celebrate them, to understand them.

From understanding comes forgiveness, openness, and deeper love.

In this exciting, fast-paced course, you’ll discover what, if left in the dark, destroyed your relationships in the past:

  • Your family patterns
  • You emotional baggage
  • The Love-O-Meter
  • The Cinderella Fantasy
  • The family rules
  • Your sibling position
  • Your Parent’s roles
  • And much more…

Are you ready to give up mediocre relationships? Do you feel it’s time to experience true, deep, all-encompassing love on all levels? It’s closer and easier than you think!

Join us today and how you feel about relationships will never be the same again! Enroll now.

Introduction

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Introduction

Are you ready to find Love and keep it? This course is for you.

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[Activity] Introduce Yourself

One of the thing I can't stress strongly enough is that the more you are able to truly share who you are, the more success you will find in building relationships, especially a love relationship. I invite you to use this course to your full advantage that way. Use the forum to play full out for the sake of love. The more you share and invite others into your life, the greater chance you have at success in your personal relationships. Take a risk!

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What to Expect

This course will help you change your mind about your own role in your lack of relationship success. We put the power back in your hands and take away the notion of bad guys and good guys. We help you to uncover your subconscious patterns that keep you stuck and attracted to Mr.Wrong so you can learn to do something different.

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Who is Marion?

Marion is a Registered Therapeutic Counsellor who once stood in your shoes. In her 40's and still not able to find the love she sought, she had to find out what was in her way of finding love. Now happily married, she is now passionate about helping other women in their quest to find lasting love.

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Who is Scott?

Scott is an international speaker and teacher on podcasting and internet marketing. He also happens to be Marion's ex boyfriend and current friend. Scott and Marion talk about some of their relationship dynamics.

Transpersonal Psychology

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Introduction to Transpersonal Psychology

What the heck is Transpersonal Psychology and more importantly, how can it help you find true love?

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The Cinderella Fantasy/Syndrome

Discover how the 'Cinderella Fantasy' prevents you from developing deep, everlasting love.

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[Activity] Cinderella Fantasy

What is YOUR Cinderella fantasy? Get our your journal and write down all of the qualities of your ideal Prince Charming. What does he look like? Does he have a 6 pack? How tall is he? What does he wear? A tool belt, or Gucci shoes? What cologne does he wear? What are his values-what is more important to him in his life? Does he want marriage and children-or not? Describe his personality in full detail. Does he make you laugh? Is he smart? Is he in charge? Is he caring? Get as much of a full picture of a man as you can.

Now-think about this seriously. Here is your reality check. Have you ever met a man like this? I'm not talking about one that you watch from afar and drool over. I'm talking about one that you really know. You have spent a bunch of time with him and you have seen him at his best and at his worst. Not the cute guy who hangs around the water cooler.

Where do men like this exist? They exist in our minds. In movies. In men we see and don't really know. We can make up any fantasy about them we want. I know this may be a bit of a downer to hear, but the only way we can have the relationship we really want is if we get real about this. Men can't be either Prince Charming in our minds or the Ogre once we are disappointed they didn't live up to our fantasy.

I will keep banging the drum of sharing here. I promise that it will get you the greatest results if you are open and vulnerable and share with the other women in the course. Taking the risk of sharing with other women in a safe environment will have you hone the skill of taking risks of sharing yourself in an intimate relationship, which is one huge step in creating the love you want. I promise!

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Marion's Turning Point Story

Marion shares how she started on her path.

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Marion's Lime Green Plastic Covered Couch Story

Marion talks long term love and her story about how it all happened for her and how it can happen for you.

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You Are Who You Sleep With

One of the courses most difficult concepts for anyone to accept. We talk about how the person that you are in a relationship with, matches you on an emotional level. A difficult pill to swallow for some.

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Summary

Marion summarizes the major concepts of this section.

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Transpersonal Psychology

Secret Ways You Sabotage Your Relationships #1

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Introduction

What is the #1 way we sabotage our love lives? Hold on to your hats, you are about to find out!

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The Love-o-Meter

DIscover how the Love-O-Meter changes everything you thought you knew about Relationships.

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How do I know if I am stuck?

How do you know if you are stuck in an unconscious pattern? You will learn exactly how you match your partner.

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A Story

I really thought I had met my dating worst. And then along came Bob...

The eye opener came when I learned about the LOVE-O-Meter and how we actually matched. Ouch!

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[Activity] Conclusion

Make sure to Download and work on this section's activities.

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The #1 way we sabotage our love lives

Secret Way You Sabotage Your Relationships #2

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Introduction

In this chapter you will learn the #2 way we unconsciously sabotage our love lives.

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Matching luggage

Matching luggage-what does that mean? How do you match your partner on an emotional level? You are about to find out.

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Am I Caught in the Same Dynamic as my Partner?

Who is running towards and who is running away in a relationship? And why is it all the same anyway?

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[Activity] Conclusion

Download and work on the activities for this section. Make sure you share your insights with the class.

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The #2 way we sabotage our love lives

Secret Way You Sabotage Your Relationships #3

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Introduction

What is the #3 way we unconsciously sabotage our love lives? You are about to find out!

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Family Patterns

What are your Family Patterns? How can you identify how these affect your relationships?

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Matriarch or Patriarch?

Who was in charge in your family? Your Mom or your Dad? Most importantly, how does this affect who you are attracted to and who is attracted to you?

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Marion and her friends story

What happens when a matriarchal woman wants to get a man to notice her? Why is it so easy for a woman who is used to men being in charge?

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Sibling Positions

When you were born - first, second or later - affects how you deal with situations in life. And therefore, how you deal with your romantic partners.

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[Activity] The Family Rules

Marion shares how your family patterns impact your romantic life. Be sure to download and complete your activity for this section.

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Marion's Family Story

Marion shares her own family rules which may help you get some insight into your own unconscious patterns.

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What Are Your Men and Women Relationship Rules?

Here is where you learn the questions to ask so you can start to untangle some of your own family rules to see how they have affected you and your dating life.

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What Does Your Family Talk About Or Not?

In this chapter you will learn how to listen for the cues of what is OK and what is taboo in your family.

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Untangle Yourself

I'm sure you are starting to see how unconscious these rules really are in your family. Here are some next steps to help you know how to start to untangle yourself from these subconscious messages.

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[Activity] Conclusion
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The #3 way we sabotage our love lives

Next Steps and Bonus Lectures

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Next Steps

Now that you know the information, you will find out how you can continue on your journey of self discovery and learning to love in a different way.

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The Lime Green Plastic Covered Couch

The first 2 chapters of Marion's book. Have a good read!

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Help Your Fellow Students

Help your fellow students decide if this course is for them.

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