Get Back To Love (Venus retrograde)
Do you need to deal with an ex? Are you looking for closure or reconciliation?
Or are you attached and wanting to move past your past problems and get closer to your partner?
Whatever state your love life is in, Venus retrograde is a great time to do it. Venus retrograde 2017 offers you the chance to mend the past and create the love life you’re dreaming of. Make the most of this rare astrological event!
The 2017 Venus retrograde lasts from March 4 to May 18 including the end of the shadow period, so that’s how long you have to ‘do the work’ and to use this cycle to create and strengthen the love in your life.
If you believe the Hollywood movies, romantic love either works or it doesn’t. Either it flows like manna from heaven (for the lucky ones) or it’s a nightmare. But it doesn’t have to be that way!
The Venus retrograde cycle is the idea time to work out what you really want in love, what you really value and, most importantly, what really matters to you.
Once you know that, you will know what to do in order to GET BACK TO LOVE
WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT THE COURSE?
Here is a list of the lectures.
Letting go of the past
Why you need to know what matters to you
What is Venus retrograde?
Venus retrograde in Aries
Why it’s so important to know what really matters
Formula For Forgiveness
Signing a Love Commitment pledge
What hurt me in the past – write it down and burn it
Letting go of attachment to your romantic ideals
Accepting what is
SINGLES What if I want to rekindle an old love?
COUPLES Starting over with my beloved
6 more ideas for how to use Venus retrograde
Reach out to an old lover and/or make peace with an old friend
More things to think about under Venus retrograde
Accepting how you love life is now – taking responsibility
A Venus mandala
Forward-creating your future
If you were born with Venus retrograde
Guided Creative Visualisation meditation
Making a wish list
Making a love vision board
Affirmations for your love life
Make the most of this rare cycle. This course will only be available to download until the end of the Venus retrograde shadow period on May 8 – grab it now!
Letting go of the past
Venus retrograde happens about once 18 month when the planet of romance and riches, Venus, starts to go backwards - or at least appears to. In this video, you will learn the basics of what Venus retrograde is all about and how you can use it to Get Back To Love.
This lessons aims to help you to work out what you really value.
Forgiving someone is the easiest way to break the karma between you so you can move on from the past.
When you make a commitment to yourself or anyone else, it's very powerful. So now it's time for you to make a love commitment.
During this section of the course, it's important to use the Venus retrograde to move on from the past. This short video gives you a ideas for how to do that by writing out a list and then burning it.
Let's face it, Hollywood has a lot to answer for.
If we go into a relationship expecting it to be 'Hollywood perfect' or a romantic fairytale which goes from courtship to wedding to happy ever after without missing a beat, we are likely to be quite disappointed.
This short video discusses why being attached to the idea of a perfect relationship is actually counter-productive.
As Venus retrogrades, it's a good time to ask yourself if you have been too demanding of love! Being realistic is a kinder approach to relationships and to your partner. After all, who among is really is perfect?
If you have trouble downloading the Break With The Past PDF here is a link
Accepting what is
Venus retrograde is very much the time when people will look to the past and think about former loves.
But should you be looking backwards?
On the one hand, it's fair to say that going back to an ex is not the best idea in the world nine times out of 10.
But what about that one time out of 10 when it might just work out?
The attached video and worksheet discuss some of what you need to know about this touchy subject.
Women's magazines are traditionally full of ideas about 'how to bring back the sparkle to your love life" and "how to reignite the passion in your relationship". The fact is, there is no silver bullet.
However, Venus retrograde is the right time to think about how well you're tending your long-term relationship... this short video and worksheet address this question.
This course is focused the love side of Venus retrograde however there is more to Venus rx than 'just' love. In fact, when Venus goes backwards, there are at least 6 other major potential issues and opportunities to be aware of. This video explains them...
Romantic relationships aside, Venus retrograde is one of the best times to reconnect with a dear friend you have fallen out with but still love...
Some things to think about as Venus goes backwards
* Why a crisis in your love life can be useful
* Why it's not old fashioned to think about how you can fulfil your lover's needs
* Can you remember why you first fell in love?
* There is more to love than romantic love
* Why asking one very unromantic question before getting involved can help!
These points are expanded on in this 5-point video with an accompanying worksheet for you to fill out
One of the very first steps towards a happier love life is to accept responsibility for where you are now. Venus retrograde is the ideal time to do it.
No Venus retrograde course would be complete without including this famous picture...
Forward-creating your future
This is not particularly relevant to this course but it's worth addressing...
This meditation is taken from my book Cosmic Love, written in 1999.
Does it work?
I could tell you that it works. I could give you quotes from friends who say it works. Even the most cynical types (myself included) can’t help shaking their heads in disbelief when they tell you about their successes. But you have no way of knowing if I’m making all this up. It’s not like physics data where outcomes are charted and printed out as proof for all to see. So why not take a chance? Try it for yourself and see the results.
Before you begin, ask yourself why you want a partner, so your magic manifesting faculties can help out. Do you want love/regular sex/support? Or maybe you just don’t like being single? It’s important to enjoy life solo, rather than just seeking someone to lean on/cuddle/parade.
1. Practise your creative visualisation at least once a day.
2. If you have negative thoughts while you’re visualising, set aside the creative visualisation for a while. Negative thoughts can be just as powerfully manifested as positive ones.
3. If you’ve been creatively visualising something for a while and it hasn’t happened, you may find that when you next think about it, you’ve lost interest. Don’t worry about it, just move on to your next dream.
4. Try to approach creative visualisation in a relaxed manner–desperately demanding something will only make you tense.
It’s essential to remember that you can’t use creative visualisation to manipulate others. You can only ask for something that will be for everyone’s benefit–so if you’re hankering after a married man, for example, you need to think again. Also, remember that something better may come to you than what you request or suggest. Trust the process.
If you are single and you want to meet someone new, writing up your wish list is a great idea, whether Venus is retrograding or not. Use the attached PDF - print it out and fill it out!
Making a vision board is one very effecting way of drawing love to you, under Venus retrograde. Actually it works any time buts as Venus retrograde is a great time to reflect on love and feel your feelings about love, the time and thought it takes to make a vision board will be especially well-spent during this cycle. More info about what a vision board is and some examples of what they look like in the video.
Saying positive affirmations and mantras really does help to change your mind-set. Give it a go as Venus retrogrades. Try saying at least one of these 10 affirmations/mantras every day for the duration of the Venus retrograde cycle.
These affirmations below are also available to print out in the attached worksheet...
10 mantras for love – recite at least one of them over and again daily while Venus is retrograde
- I love myself. I am a good person and I am doing the best that I can!
- I am lovable!
- I am loved! I am grateful for the love that comes my way!
- I am loving! I open my heart to the people in my life!
- I am happy – and the happier I am, the happier I am!
- I am grateful – and the more grateful I am, the more I have to be grateful for!
- Everything is unfolding perfectly and as it should. I am blessed
- Every day is a new beginning for me and love
- I bless the past. I learned a lot from it and for that I am grateful
- And the most powerful mantra of all … Om Namo Narayani … This Sanskrit chant means "I surrender to the Divine"
This very simple mantra meditation is all you need to get through the Venus retrograde cycle. Do it daily.
That wraps up the Venus retrograde course. I hope you found it useful and I hope it allows you to make the most of Venus retrograde!